Family Heirlooms, Traditions, and Truth

Today on “Family & Friends Friday,” we’re blessed to have my friend Noble Armstrong as our guest blogger. He and his wife Heather have been members of Webster Bible Church for 15 years, joining shortly after they were married. Noble is currently an elder at WBC and previously served on our deacon board. He also helps to lead our Tuesday men’s Bible study, Journeymen. Noble and Heather have five children, ages 7 to 13. He is a middle school technology teacher in the Webster School district and enjoys woodworking, trapping and, as you will see, hunting.

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I love hunting season. Deer hunting has been a tradition in my family from as long as I can remember, and long before that. I grew up listening to stories from both my grandfathers, telling about the pursuit and harvest of whitetails. When I got older, I joined these activities and have many fond memories of being in the woods, waiting for a deer to appear. I love the cool of the morning, the sounds of the forest as it wakes up and watching various birds and animals. I love the challenge of matching wits with a wiley and crafty buck. And of course, I love the taste of venison!

For the past few years, I have enjoyed sharing this experience with my kids. Passing on this tradition to them is yet another reason I love hunting.

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This year I rattled in bucks with a pair of antlers from a deer my dad’s dad, Papa Phil, shot. I use a buck knife that my mom’s dad, Grampee Leigh, gave me to field dress the animals after harvest. Although I have a lot of new, modern equipment, these activities with these particular tools link me to the past.

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I know that by these activities I am keeping alive traditions that have been in our family for generations. We took the beautiful 8-point buck that we harvested this year to the taxidermist. For years to come, when my boys look at the mounted head of that magnificent animal we shot together, they will reflect back on the events of that morning in the woods.

This also makes me think of other, more important activities, that need to be passed along and remembered.

The Bible is full of examples of people who commemorated important events. After God caused the Jordan River to part, allowing the Israelites to cross, Joshua realized that moment needed to be memorialized. He had the men bring 12 stones from the dry river bed, to set up a memorial to the miracle that God performed there that day (see Joshua 4:4-7). Joshua said,

Let this be a sign among you, so that when your children ask later, saying, “What do these stones mean to you?” then you shall say to them, “Because the waters of the Jordan were cut off before the ark of the covenant of the Lord….” So these stones shall become a memorial to the sons of Israel forever.

In addition to remembering the Lord’s goodness, we are also to teach our children to love the Lord and obey his commands. Joshua’s predecessor, Moses, told the people of Israel,

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. (Deut. 6:5-9)

The apostle Paul reminds the believers at Thessalonica to “stand firm and hold to the traditions that you were taught by us, either by our spoken word or by our letter” (2 Thess. 2:15). He praises the church at Corinth for “holding to the traditions just as I passed them on to you” (1 Cor. 11:2).

Even our Savior himself reminds us of the importance of remembrance and reflection as it concerns his atoning sacrifice for our sins. Jesus did so the night before he died on the cross. Scripture says,

and when He had given thanks, He broke it and said, “This is My body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of Me.” In the same way He took the cup also after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood; do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of Me.” (1 Cor. 11:24-27)

We are in that time of year that is filled with remembrance and wonderful traditions. Let’s use that as an opportunity to remember the amazing gift that Jesus gave us, through His work on the cross.

I earnestly pray that the family prayers, Bible readings, devotions and missionary stories we read as a family will last in our children’s minds. As a family, I want to recommit to making church a high priority, serving the body of Christ, and shining God’s light to the world around us.

What about you? Are there traditions you carry on individually or as a family that bring you closer to God? If so, great! if not, why not start some new ones?

Christmas Tree Skirt

This past weekend my wife Ruthie and I ventured out to a local farm to select a Christmas tree. After we had walked around a bit, we found a tree we liked, cut it down, and hauled it home. We brought it inside, plopped it in our tree stand, and tightened the screws until the tree stood firmly in place. Then we swept up the fallen needles and put water in the tree stand.

Afterwards my wife did what she does every year at that point. She wrapped our beautiful tree skirt around the stand at the base of the tree. At that point she said to me, “You should take a picture and send it to Cathy. She would probably love that.”

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So that’s what I did. Before we hung any decorations on the tree, I took a picture of it with the skirt that Cathy Milner had given to us 25 years ago in Nova Scotia. Ruthie and I had moved there in 1994, when I accepted the call to pastor Wittenburg Baptist Church. Cathy was an Area Supervisor for the Nova Scotia Department of Natural Resources, which hosted the annual Musquodoboit Valley Christmas Festival of Trees & Crafts. Every year, right after the festival was over, Cathy would give us one of the trees to use for our own Christmas tree, which was a real blessing.

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But Cathy went beyond that and made us a Christmas tree skirt to go around the base of the tree. Up until that point my wife had used old curtains to wrap our Christmas tree stand. But we have used Cathy’s gift ever since.

A quarter-century is a long time. All five of our children are now in their twenties and out of our home. Yet throughout all their childhood years, Cathy’s gift graced the base of our tree. And it still does today.

Our Christmas tree skirt reminds me of a key principle we should remember:

A gift of kindness goes a long way.

I was reminded of this principle again earlier last week. One of my sons got a message out of the blue from a young man that now serves in the military, is married, and just had his second child. He’s a few years younger than my son, and they hadn’t talked for some time. But he sent my son a message saying,

You prob won’t remember this, but about ten years ago you … picked me up at school … to show me — quote: “the greatest combo known to mankind.” You drove me to dunks [Dunkin’ Donuts], got me a breakfast sandwich, then Cumbies [Cumberland Farms] to buy a Monster. Then you handed me both and you said “try it.” You’re right. It’s been a staple ever since. Haha.

He was right: my son didn’t remember this incident from a decade ago. But apparently it made quite an impact on this young man! Time would fail me to tell of other similar incidents. But here are two takeaways for us:

  1. Never underestimate the long-standing impact of a simple gift.

  2. Express gratitude to others for their past gifts to you.

You probably thanked them at the time. But a fresh word of appreciation might greatly encourage them. Paul wrote to his friends, “I thank my God every time I remember you” (Phil. 1:3). I’ll bet Paul’s note really encouraged them. If someone has been a blessing to you, let them know! You can be a blessing to them by letting them know how they have been a blessing to you.

A Minor Character of Christmas

Today on “Family & Friends Friday,” we’re blessed to have my friend, David Welker, as our guest blogger. Dave has been a member of Webster Bible Church since 1973 and serves with me on our elder leadership team. A retired public school teacher, Dave enjoys teaching elementary students in Olympians (a Word of Life program) and middle school students in the church's Sunday morning Truth Tracks (Sunday school) ministry. You will be able to tell from the article that Dave also enjoys crossword puzzles.

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I have always been impressed by the faith of Simeon as seen in Luke’s account of the Christmas story (Luke 2:25-35). But to be truthful, I have seen him as a minor character in the narrative. When I studied this passage in depth back in October to prepare for my middle school Sunday school class, I realized that Simeon was not so minor after all.

Do the math. The shepherds get 13 verses in Luke. The wise men are allotted 12 verses in Matthew. Yet Simeon’s story spans 11 verses — and includes his own solo!

Here is the Scripture that recounts this remarkable man — Luke 2:25-35::

Now there was a man in Jerusalem, whose name was Simeon, and this man was righteous and devout, waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. And it had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not see death before he had seen the Lord's Christ. And he came in the Spirit into the temple, and when the parents brought in the child Jesus, to do for him according to the custom of the Law, he took him up in his arms and blessed God and said,

“Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace, according to your word; for my eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and for glory to your people Israel.”

And his father and his mother marveled at what was said about him. And Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother,

“Behold, this child is appointed for the fall and rising of many in Israel, and for a sign that is opposed (and a sword will pierce through your own soul also), so that thoughts from many hearts may be revealed.”

Simeon is described as righteous and devout. He was at peace with God and with his fellow man. He has been waiting for the “Consolation of Israel,” a common term at that time for the Messiah (see Isaiah 12:1). This man had been promised by the Holy Spirit that he would see the Messiah before he died. Remember that God had been silent for 400 years. That makes Simeon’s faith all the more remarkable. He looked forward to the Messiah with eager anticipation.

The Holy Spirit brought Simeon to the Temple on the day that Jesus’ parents brought him to be presented there as required by the Law. It had to be the Spirit’s power that showed Simeon who the Messiah was, because I’m pretty sure that he was not looking for a six-week-old baby. He tenderly holds Jesus in his arms and blesses God! “My eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples.” (vv. 30-31)

This verse reveals two vital truths:

  1. Salvation is a person. It is not ritual you perform or some set of laws you obey. Salvation is a person and that person is Jesus Christ. Do you have Him in your life today?

  2. Salvation is for all people. There were not many world travelers in Israel at this time. It is my guess that Simeon was very limited in his geography. Yet he saw Jesus as the Savior of the world!

It is no surprise that the Gentile writer of this gospel, Luke, picked up on this point. Jesus was a Light to the Gentiles. Simon praises God that this tiny baby is also the long-awaited Savior of the Jewish nation.

The final section of Simeon’s part in the Christmas story is his foretelling of Mary’s “sword in her soul” (v. 35). Mary paid a steep price to be our Savior’s mother. She was shunned for being an “unwed mother.” She heard what others said about her son as He went about His ministry. And she stood at the cross to watch her son die a horrible death. Mary’s love of her son brought great suffering, a fact that Simeon foretold through the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

I am a person with a great amount of life experience. (That’s my tender way of saying that I’m in my seventies.) If you are in that age bracket, let me remind you that so was Simeon. God still has tasks for people our age to do for His Kingdom. Notice that Simeon was looking forward, not to the past.

Historians estimate that about 40,000 people lived in Jerusalem at this time. Only two of those people (the other is Anna, whose story is recounted in Luke 2:36-38) recognized the coming of the Savior of the world. You don’t have to be a great mathematician to see that the percentages are pretty small.

Be on the lookout this Christmas
for a chance to make a difference
in the life of someone around you.

I am a retired elementary school teacher. My background tells me that we need to encourage the young people around us. We do not want to be like the huge majority of people in Jerusalem who missed the chance to see an extraordinary child. A special child might be riding on the bus with you, living down the street, or residing right in your own home! Be watching. The Lord is at work!

Everlasting Father

Recently our daughter gave birth to a son. A year ago we knew nothing about him because he didn’t exist. He hadn’t been conceived, and no one could guarantee that he would be conceived.

Such was not the case with God’s Son. Centuries before Jesus was born, God guaranteed that he would come — so much so that he announced it as if the Messiah’s birth had already happened. It was as good as done.

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given … and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. (Isa. 9:6)

Each of these titles tell us something significant about the Son of God and why he is such a precious gift to us. We have already seen how Jesus is the Wonderful Counselor and the Mighty God. Today we’ll consider how Jesus is our “Everlasting Father.”

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What it does not mean:

When Scripture refers to the Messiah as the “Everlasting Father,” it does not mean that the Messiah is God the Father. Scripture teaches that God is a Tri-Unity. That’s what the word Trinity means. There is one God who consists of three co-equal, co-eternal Persons. The following diagram helps helps to clarify the personal distinction yet essential unity between the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

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As you can see, the Father is God, the Son is God, and the Spirit is God.

  • But the Father is not the Son, and the Father is not the Spirit.

  • The Son is not the Father, and the Son is not the Spirit.

  • The Spirit is not the Son, and the Spirit is not the Father.

The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are all God, but they are all separate Persons with respective roles and functions.

Since that is true, what does Isaiah mean when he says that Jesus is our “Everlasting Father”? That’s a good question!

What it does mean:

The Hebrew word for “father” [אָב] has many nuances. Two of these meanings in particular reflect Jesus’ role as the Messiah.

  1. Head of household

    Earlier in Isaiah’s prophecy he refers to “the children whom the Lord has given me” (Isa. 8:18). The author of Hebrews applies this statement directly to Jesus, after referring to him as “the founder of [our] salvation” (Heb. 2:10, 13).

    When predicting the sufferings of the Messiah, Isaiah says, “it was the will of the Lord to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the Lord shall prosper in his hand” (Isa. 53:10).

    Through his redeeming work, Jesus became the “founder of our faith” (Heb. 12:2). We are his spiritual offspring. He is the head of the church (Eph. 5:23), the household of faith (Gal. 6:10). In this sense Jesus Christ is our “Everlasting Father.”

  2. Benevolent Provider/Protector

    This is the second way in which the Hebrew term “father” can be used. We see this in the case of the Old Testament saint Job, who testified, “I was a father to the poor and assisted strangers who needed help” (Job 29:16).

    Is not Jesus the ultimate example of this? “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45). Ephesians 5 says that Jesus “nourishes and cherishes [the church], because we are members of his body” (Eph. 5:29-30). Just as we naturally love and take care of ourselves, so Jesus loves and takes care of us. Because this is true, the apostle Paul confidently assured his fellow believers, “And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:19).

    Jesus not only provides for us, but he also protects us. He said, “I will build my church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it” (Matt. 16:18). If you belong to Christ, you are as safe and secure as you can be! He will provide for you, and he will protect you.

And he will do so forever — for Jesus is the “Everlasting Father.” In the first chapter of Revelation, John sees Jesus glorified and hears him say, “‘I am the Alpha and the Omega,’ says the Lord God, ‘who is and who was and who is to come, the Almighty’” (Rev. 1:8). Because Jesus is God, and God is eternal, we can be sure that he will never cease to care for us.

Practical Application

We should respond to Jesus’ role as “Everlasting Father” in two ways:

  1. Come to Jesus.

    Jesus himself says, “Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28). Jesus wept over the city of Jerusalem, saying, “How often I have wanted to gather your children together as a hen protects her chicks beneath her wings, but you wouldn’t let me” (Matt. 23:37).

    What about you? Have you come to Jesus in faith, receiving the salvation that he has provided through his atoning death? The night before he died, Jesus told his disciples, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you” (John 14:18). David said, “Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close” (Ps. 27:10). He is the “Father of the fatherless and protector of widows” (Ps. 68:5). Sometimes loved ones leave us through death or desertion. But such will never be the case with Jesus. You can always depend on him to be there for you. So come to him.

  2. Become like Jesus.

    Ephesians 5 teaches us that those who are loved by God are to become like God. His love and character are to be reflected in our lifestyles and relationships. The world needs to see men who lovingly lead their homes … husbands who are faithful to their wives … fathers who protect and provide for their children.

    On a broader scale, we are to imitate Jesus in the life of the church. We are to love one another deeply and sacrificially. Instead of having a “what’s-in-it-for-me” mentality, we should look for ways to love others as Jesus has loved us.

Without Jesus’ loving leadership, provision and protection, we would be lost, destitute, and doomed. But, praise his holy name, Jesus is our “Everlasting Father.”

O, come, let us adore Him!

Wonderful Counselor

Everyone is anxious to put 2020 behind us. While it’s a stretch to say that it’s “the worst year ever,” there’s no question that we are living in troubled times. In fact, this perspective was pre-pandemic. According to a 2019 Pew Research Survey, only 12% of Americans were “very optimistic” about the nation’s future, whereas 31% were “somewhat pessimistic” and 13% “very pessimistic.”

Ancient Israel was no different in the days of Isaiah. God himself described her as a nation “in anguish” (Isa. 9:1). Israel was under God’s judgment on account of her sin. More hardship was headed her way. The people were living in dark days.

But in the midst of their gloom, God promised that brighter days were coming. Speaking through his prophet Isaiah, the Lord declared,

The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shined. You have multiplied the nation; you have increased its joy; they rejoice before you as with joy at the harvest….
For to us a child is born, to us a Son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. (Isa. 9:2-3, 6)

The New Testament applies this prophecy to Jesus in his First Advent (see Matt. 4:12-16). Earlier Isaiah had declared, “Therefore, the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel [God with us]” (Isa. 7:14). This prophecy also is applied to the conception and birth of Jesus Christ (Matt. 1:23). He is the Child born to us, the Son given to us.

What a Gift he is! Isaiah 9:6 ascribes four titles to this coming King. The first designation is "Wonderful Counselor.”

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This title could also be translated “a wonder of a counselor.” The Hebrew word pala (“wonderful”) appears 70 times in the Old Testament. It is used primarily with God as its subject, expressing actions that are beyond human powers or expectations. This idea is expressed well in Psalm 118:23: “This is the Lord’s doing, and it is wonderful to see.” The word pala first appears in Genesis 18:14, where the Lord says in reference to himself, “Is anything too hard [pala] for the Lord?”

Of course not! And that includes the counsel he gives us. The apostle Paul tells us that Christ Jesus “became to us wisdom from God” (1 Cor. 1:31). In his commentary on this particular verse, John MacArthur notes that believers

are given God’s wisdom. They not only are saved by God’s wisdom rather than their own, but are given God’s wisdom to replace their own. The truly wise of this world are those whose wisdom is not of this world but is from the Lord. Christians can say, without pride or self-boasting, that they have become wise in Jesus Christ. They stand as a testimony for all time that God in His wisdom chose the sinful, the weak, and the unwise in order to make them righteous, strong, and wise. God grants them His wisdom that He might be glorified, that it might be clearly seen that the wisdom Christians have is not their own but is by His power and grace.

For this reason, the apostle Paul was able to affirm his fellow believers, saying, “I myself am satisfied about you, my brothers and sisters, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge and able to instruct one another” (Rom. 15:14). We display the wisdom of Christ whenever we counsel others according to Scripture in the power of the Holy Spirit (see Psalm 119:24; James 1:5).

Note: Charles Stanley has written an article titled “10 Ways to Detect Ungodly Counsel.” Two red flags are the absence of prayer, and people giving advice based on what they think rather than what God thinks. To read more of this brief, beneficial article, click here.

The Lord Jesus Christ gives us all the wisdom and direction we need in life. He is our “Wonderful Counselor,” and for that we praise him!

(Tomorrow we’ll consider the second title in Isaiah 9:6: “Mighty God.”)