Christmas Tree Skirt

This past weekend my wife Ruthie and I ventured out to a local farm to select a Christmas tree. After we had walked around a bit, we found a tree we liked, cut it down, and hauled it home. We brought it inside, plopped it in our tree stand, and tightened the screws until the tree stood firmly in place. Then we swept up the fallen needles and put water in the tree stand.

Afterwards my wife did what she does every year at that point. She wrapped our beautiful tree skirt around the stand at the base of the tree. At that point she said to me, “You should take a picture and send it to Cathy. She would probably love that.”

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So that’s what I did. Before we hung any decorations on the tree, I took a picture of it with the skirt that Cathy Milner had given to us 25 years ago in Nova Scotia. Ruthie and I had moved there in 1994, when I accepted the call to pastor Wittenburg Baptist Church. Cathy was an Area Supervisor for the Nova Scotia Department of Natural Resources, which hosted the annual Musquodoboit Valley Christmas Festival of Trees & Crafts. Every year, right after the festival was over, Cathy would give us one of the trees to use for our own Christmas tree, which was a real blessing.

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But Cathy went beyond that and made us a Christmas tree skirt to go around the base of the tree. Up until that point my wife had used old curtains to wrap our Christmas tree stand. But we have used Cathy’s gift ever since.

A quarter-century is a long time. All five of our children are now in their twenties and out of our home. Yet throughout all their childhood years, Cathy’s gift graced the base of our tree. And it still does today.

Our Christmas tree skirt reminds me of a key principle we should remember:

A gift of kindness goes a long way.

I was reminded of this principle again earlier last week. One of my sons got a message out of the blue from a young man that now serves in the military, is married, and just had his second child. He’s a few years younger than my son, and they hadn’t talked for some time. But he sent my son a message saying,

You prob won’t remember this, but about ten years ago you … picked me up at school … to show me — quote: “the greatest combo known to mankind.” You drove me to dunks [Dunkin’ Donuts], got me a breakfast sandwich, then Cumbies [Cumberland Farms] to buy a Monster. Then you handed me both and you said “try it.” You’re right. It’s been a staple ever since. Haha.

He was right: my son didn’t remember this incident from a decade ago. But apparently it made quite an impact on this young man! Time would fail me to tell of other similar incidents. But here are two takeaways for us:

  1. Never underestimate the long-standing impact of a simple gift.

  2. Express gratitude to others for their past gifts to you.

You probably thanked them at the time. But a fresh word of appreciation might greatly encourage them. Paul wrote to his friends, “I thank my God every time I remember you” (Phil. 1:3). I’ll bet Paul’s note really encouraged them. If someone has been a blessing to you, let them know! You can be a blessing to them by letting them know how they have been a blessing to you.

A Minor Character of Christmas

Today on “Family & Friends Friday,” we’re blessed to have my friend, David Welker, as our guest blogger. Dave has been a member of Webster Bible Church since 1973 and serves with me on our elder leadership team. A retired public school teacher, Dave enjoys teaching elementary students in Olympians (a Word of Life program) and middle school students in the church's Sunday morning Truth Tracks (Sunday school) ministry. You will be able to tell from the article that Dave also enjoys crossword puzzles.

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I have always been impressed by the faith of Simeon as seen in Luke’s account of the Christmas story (Luke 2:25-35). But to be truthful, I have seen him as a minor character in the narrative. When I studied this passage in depth back in October to prepare for my middle school Sunday school class, I realized that Simeon was not so minor after all.

Do the math. The shepherds get 13 verses in Luke. The wise men are allotted 12 verses in Matthew. Yet Simeon’s story spans 11 verses — and includes his own solo!

Here is the Scripture that recounts this remarkable man — Luke 2:25-35::

Now there was a man in Jerusalem, whose name was Simeon, and this man was righteous and devout, waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. And it had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not see death before he had seen the Lord's Christ. And he came in the Spirit into the temple, and when the parents brought in the child Jesus, to do for him according to the custom of the Law, he took him up in his arms and blessed God and said,

“Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace, according to your word; for my eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and for glory to your people Israel.”

And his father and his mother marveled at what was said about him. And Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother,

“Behold, this child is appointed for the fall and rising of many in Israel, and for a sign that is opposed (and a sword will pierce through your own soul also), so that thoughts from many hearts may be revealed.”

Simeon is described as righteous and devout. He was at peace with God and with his fellow man. He has been waiting for the “Consolation of Israel,” a common term at that time for the Messiah (see Isaiah 12:1). This man had been promised by the Holy Spirit that he would see the Messiah before he died. Remember that God had been silent for 400 years. That makes Simeon’s faith all the more remarkable. He looked forward to the Messiah with eager anticipation.

The Holy Spirit brought Simeon to the Temple on the day that Jesus’ parents brought him to be presented there as required by the Law. It had to be the Spirit’s power that showed Simeon who the Messiah was, because I’m pretty sure that he was not looking for a six-week-old baby. He tenderly holds Jesus in his arms and blesses God! “My eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples.” (vv. 30-31)

This verse reveals two vital truths:

  1. Salvation is a person. It is not ritual you perform or some set of laws you obey. Salvation is a person and that person is Jesus Christ. Do you have Him in your life today?

  2. Salvation is for all people. There were not many world travelers in Israel at this time. It is my guess that Simeon was very limited in his geography. Yet he saw Jesus as the Savior of the world!

It is no surprise that the Gentile writer of this gospel, Luke, picked up on this point. Jesus was a Light to the Gentiles. Simon praises God that this tiny baby is also the long-awaited Savior of the Jewish nation.

The final section of Simeon’s part in the Christmas story is his foretelling of Mary’s “sword in her soul” (v. 35). Mary paid a steep price to be our Savior’s mother. She was shunned for being an “unwed mother.” She heard what others said about her son as He went about His ministry. And she stood at the cross to watch her son die a horrible death. Mary’s love of her son brought great suffering, a fact that Simeon foretold through the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

I am a person with a great amount of life experience. (That’s my tender way of saying that I’m in my seventies.) If you are in that age bracket, let me remind you that so was Simeon. God still has tasks for people our age to do for His Kingdom. Notice that Simeon was looking forward, not to the past.

Historians estimate that about 40,000 people lived in Jerusalem at this time. Only two of those people (the other is Anna, whose story is recounted in Luke 2:36-38) recognized the coming of the Savior of the world. You don’t have to be a great mathematician to see that the percentages are pretty small.

Be on the lookout this Christmas
for a chance to make a difference
in the life of someone around you.

I am a retired elementary school teacher. My background tells me that we need to encourage the young people around us. We do not want to be like the huge majority of people in Jerusalem who missed the chance to see an extraordinary child. A special child might be riding on the bus with you, living down the street, or residing right in your own home! Be watching. The Lord is at work!

Everlasting Father

Recently our daughter gave birth to a son. A year ago we knew nothing about him because he didn’t exist. He hadn’t been conceived, and no one could guarantee that he would be conceived.

Such was not the case with God’s Son. Centuries before Jesus was born, God guaranteed that he would come — so much so that he announced it as if the Messiah’s birth had already happened. It was as good as done.

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given … and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. (Isa. 9:6)

Each of these titles tell us something significant about the Son of God and why he is such a precious gift to us. We have already seen how Jesus is the Wonderful Counselor and the Mighty God. Today we’ll consider how Jesus is our “Everlasting Father.”

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What it does not mean:

When Scripture refers to the Messiah as the “Everlasting Father,” it does not mean that the Messiah is God the Father. Scripture teaches that God is a Tri-Unity. That’s what the word Trinity means. There is one God who consists of three co-equal, co-eternal Persons. The following diagram helps helps to clarify the personal distinction yet essential unity between the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

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As you can see, the Father is God, the Son is God, and the Spirit is God.

  • But the Father is not the Son, and the Father is not the Spirit.

  • The Son is not the Father, and the Son is not the Spirit.

  • The Spirit is not the Son, and the Spirit is not the Father.

The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are all God, but they are all separate Persons with respective roles and functions.

Since that is true, what does Isaiah mean when he says that Jesus is our “Everlasting Father”? That’s a good question!

What it does mean:

The Hebrew word for “father” [אָב] has many nuances. Two of these meanings in particular reflect Jesus’ role as the Messiah.

  1. Head of household

    Earlier in Isaiah’s prophecy he refers to “the children whom the Lord has given me” (Isa. 8:18). The author of Hebrews applies this statement directly to Jesus, after referring to him as “the founder of [our] salvation” (Heb. 2:10, 13).

    When predicting the sufferings of the Messiah, Isaiah says, “it was the will of the Lord to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the Lord shall prosper in his hand” (Isa. 53:10).

    Through his redeeming work, Jesus became the “founder of our faith” (Heb. 12:2). We are his spiritual offspring. He is the head of the church (Eph. 5:23), the household of faith (Gal. 6:10). In this sense Jesus Christ is our “Everlasting Father.”

  2. Benevolent Provider/Protector

    This is the second way in which the Hebrew term “father” can be used. We see this in the case of the Old Testament saint Job, who testified, “I was a father to the poor and assisted strangers who needed help” (Job 29:16).

    Is not Jesus the ultimate example of this? “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45). Ephesians 5 says that Jesus “nourishes and cherishes [the church], because we are members of his body” (Eph. 5:29-30). Just as we naturally love and take care of ourselves, so Jesus loves and takes care of us. Because this is true, the apostle Paul confidently assured his fellow believers, “And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:19).

    Jesus not only provides for us, but he also protects us. He said, “I will build my church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it” (Matt. 16:18). If you belong to Christ, you are as safe and secure as you can be! He will provide for you, and he will protect you.

And he will do so forever — for Jesus is the “Everlasting Father.” In the first chapter of Revelation, John sees Jesus glorified and hears him say, “‘I am the Alpha and the Omega,’ says the Lord God, ‘who is and who was and who is to come, the Almighty’” (Rev. 1:8). Because Jesus is God, and God is eternal, we can be sure that he will never cease to care for us.

Practical Application

We should respond to Jesus’ role as “Everlasting Father” in two ways:

  1. Come to Jesus.

    Jesus himself says, “Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28). Jesus wept over the city of Jerusalem, saying, “How often I have wanted to gather your children together as a hen protects her chicks beneath her wings, but you wouldn’t let me” (Matt. 23:37).

    What about you? Have you come to Jesus in faith, receiving the salvation that he has provided through his atoning death? The night before he died, Jesus told his disciples, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you” (John 14:18). David said, “Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close” (Ps. 27:10). He is the “Father of the fatherless and protector of widows” (Ps. 68:5). Sometimes loved ones leave us through death or desertion. But such will never be the case with Jesus. You can always depend on him to be there for you. So come to him.

  2. Become like Jesus.

    Ephesians 5 teaches us that those who are loved by God are to become like God. His love and character are to be reflected in our lifestyles and relationships. The world needs to see men who lovingly lead their homes … husbands who are faithful to their wives … fathers who protect and provide for their children.

    On a broader scale, we are to imitate Jesus in the life of the church. We are to love one another deeply and sacrificially. Instead of having a “what’s-in-it-for-me” mentality, we should look for ways to love others as Jesus has loved us.

Without Jesus’ loving leadership, provision and protection, we would be lost, destitute, and doomed. But, praise his holy name, Jesus is our “Everlasting Father.”

O, come, let us adore Him!

Wonderful Counselor

Everyone is anxious to put 2020 behind us. While it’s a stretch to say that it’s “the worst year ever,” there’s no question that we are living in troubled times. In fact, this perspective was pre-pandemic. According to a 2019 Pew Research Survey, only 12% of Americans were “very optimistic” about the nation’s future, whereas 31% were “somewhat pessimistic” and 13% “very pessimistic.”

Ancient Israel was no different in the days of Isaiah. God himself described her as a nation “in anguish” (Isa. 9:1). Israel was under God’s judgment on account of her sin. More hardship was headed her way. The people were living in dark days.

But in the midst of their gloom, God promised that brighter days were coming. Speaking through his prophet Isaiah, the Lord declared,

The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shined. You have multiplied the nation; you have increased its joy; they rejoice before you as with joy at the harvest….
For to us a child is born, to us a Son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. (Isa. 9:2-3, 6)

The New Testament applies this prophecy to Jesus in his First Advent (see Matt. 4:12-16). Earlier Isaiah had declared, “Therefore, the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel [God with us]” (Isa. 7:14). This prophecy also is applied to the conception and birth of Jesus Christ (Matt. 1:23). He is the Child born to us, the Son given to us.

What a Gift he is! Isaiah 9:6 ascribes four titles to this coming King. The first designation is "Wonderful Counselor.”

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This title could also be translated “a wonder of a counselor.” The Hebrew word pala (“wonderful”) appears 70 times in the Old Testament. It is used primarily with God as its subject, expressing actions that are beyond human powers or expectations. This idea is expressed well in Psalm 118:23: “This is the Lord’s doing, and it is wonderful to see.” The word pala first appears in Genesis 18:14, where the Lord says in reference to himself, “Is anything too hard [pala] for the Lord?”

Of course not! And that includes the counsel he gives us. The apostle Paul tells us that Christ Jesus “became to us wisdom from God” (1 Cor. 1:31). In his commentary on this particular verse, John MacArthur notes that believers

are given God’s wisdom. They not only are saved by God’s wisdom rather than their own, but are given God’s wisdom to replace their own. The truly wise of this world are those whose wisdom is not of this world but is from the Lord. Christians can say, without pride or self-boasting, that they have become wise in Jesus Christ. They stand as a testimony for all time that God in His wisdom chose the sinful, the weak, and the unwise in order to make them righteous, strong, and wise. God grants them His wisdom that He might be glorified, that it might be clearly seen that the wisdom Christians have is not their own but is by His power and grace.

For this reason, the apostle Paul was able to affirm his fellow believers, saying, “I myself am satisfied about you, my brothers and sisters, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge and able to instruct one another” (Rom. 15:14). We display the wisdom of Christ whenever we counsel others according to Scripture in the power of the Holy Spirit (see Psalm 119:24; James 1:5).

Note: Charles Stanley has written an article titled “10 Ways to Detect Ungodly Counsel.” Two red flags are the absence of prayer, and people giving advice based on what they think rather than what God thinks. To read more of this brief, beneficial article, click here.

The Lord Jesus Christ gives us all the wisdom and direction we need in life. He is our “Wonderful Counselor,” and for that we praise him!

(Tomorrow we’ll consider the second title in Isaiah 9:6: “Mighty God.”)

"I've Gotta Be Me!"

[Note: The following post is adapted from its original version which was published on March 20, 2012.]

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Ziggy is a cartoon character that was launched by Tom Wilson the year I was born (1968). Ziggy has a rather unimpressive appearance. He is small, bald, and barefoot. He has been described as always being one step behind, one nickel short, one lane away from the fast lane.  Poor Ziggy never seems to catch a break!

That's probably why Ziggy has so many fans. For in Ziggy they see a reflection of themselves, and the many misfortunes that come his way remind them of their own life experiences. In fact, this was precisely the case with Ziggy’s creator, Tom Wilson. The Associate Press reported,

The name Ziggy derived from his father’s school experience of being the last alphabetically. When a new classmate arrived beginning with “Z,” the idea took root with the friendly sounding “y” ending, such as Billy or Tommy. “Ziggy is a last-in-line character,” the son said in a phone interview. The last picked for everything and kind of a lovable kind of loser character. [Today show website]

When I was a kid, my parents got me a T-shirt with Ziggy on the front saying, "I've Gotta Be Me!" Looking at that statement from a Christian standpoint, it can be viewed as either positive or negative, as true or not true.

Looking at it negatively, we can say that it is not true as it concerns sinful traits and patterns in our lives. 

  • A Christian brother who has an anger problem says, “I can be a bit of a hot-head, but then I cool down after a while. That’s just the way I am. I’ve gotta be me.

  • A Christian sister is known for being obnoxious. She prides herself on “speaking her mind,” describing herself as one who “tells it like it is. That’s just the way I’m wired. I’ve gotta be me.” 

Each of these two cases conveys a sinful pattern — not a personality trait — that must be addressed. This is not a matter of “teaching an old dog new tricks,” because we are human beings, not dogs. Furthermore, if we are in Christ, we are a “new creation.  The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Cor. 5:17).  Scripture says “to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life … and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (Eph. 4:23-24).

When it comes to sinful traits and patterns, I don’t gotta be me.  In fact, I gotta kill me [self] and become like Christ. Thankfully, God has made this possible by his Spirit, giving us the power to change. This is the only way to truly live (Rom. 8:13).

With this in mind we can also take to heart the quote “I’ve Gotta Be Me!” in a positive sense, stressing the blessed uniqueness of our individuality. This has to do with aspects of our person that distinguish us from others. Such features would include our personality, skill sets, spiritual gifts, and more. 

Paul testified in 1 Cor. 15:10"By the grace of God I am what I am." 

  • The first part of the verse — the realization that who we are is the work of God’s grace — keeps us from pride.

  • The second part of the verse--"I am what I am" — keeps us from wishing we were someone else. Instead, we strive to become all that God has created us to be. That's why Paul goes on to say in the second half of the verse, " … and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them — yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me" (1 Cor. 15:10).

Earlier in life and ministry I squandered much time wishing that I was different or more capable than I am, rather than going all out in God's strength to reach my full potential in Christ.

This reminds me of another cartoon I watched as a kid. It was called "King Leonardo and His Short Subjects." One of the main characters was Mr. Wizard the Lizard who lived in the woods at the base of a tree. He was often visited by Tooter the Turtle (pictured below with the Wizard), who wondered what it was like to be someone else.

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So with a wave of his arms, Mr. Wizard would send Tooter Turtle through time or space to experience what it was like to be a gunfighter, police officer, sailor, or whatever else Tooter wished to be.

The climax of each story would occur when Tooter would get himself into an awful, inescapable predicament and cry out, "Help, Mr. Wizard!" Upon hearing the cry, Mr. Wizard would utter his magical chant, "Drizzle, Drazzle, Druzzle, Drome, time for this one to come home!" In a matter of seconds, Tooter would make it back, safe and sound. At that point Mr. Wizard would give him the wise counsel that would conclude every episode: "Be what you is, not what you is not. Folks that what is, is the happiest lot."

That’s bad grammar but good counsel. Don’t try to be someone else. Be all that God has called you to be in Christ!