Roof Repair and Soul Care: Five Similarities

The flat, rubber roof on top of our worship center is in need of major repair. Thankfully, it doesn't need to be altogether replaced, but significant work needs to be done. To save money, we're trying to do most of the labor in-house. As a team of us were working on the roof yesterday afternoon, it dawned on me that roof repair and soul care have much in common. Below are five similarities that came to mind:

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  1. Clues - We noticed there was a problem when water began leaking into the sanctuary. Even though the water was the presenting problem, it wasn't the primary problem. The presenting problem could be solved by putting out buckets, but to fix the primary problem, we had to repair the roof. Likewise, words and behavior present clues that there's a deeper problem in the heart that needs to be addressed (see Matthew 12:33-35; Mark 7:20-23).
  2. Crust - After removing the layer of rocks on the rubber roof, we noticed that there was a crust of silt covering the rubber membrane. This crust had built up over time and needed to be scrubbed off before any protective covering could adhere to the membrane. It wasn't easy getting through that hard external covering. We had to scrub, scour, rinse, and repeat. Some spots were harder than others and required a lot more attention. Likewise, the human heart can become encrusted by resentment and bitterness, unresolved conflict, emotional scars and such. There are no quick fixes in such cases. Spiritual cleansing requires a lot of time and painstaking effort. But the Word of God, rightly administered, can penetrate the hardest of exteriors and get to the heart of the matter (Hebrews 4:12).
  3. Care - While working to get the crust off the roof, we had to be careful not to damage the membrane itself. So while being conscientious, we also had to be careful. The same is true when addressing heart issues. Our goal is to kill sin without doing unnecessary damage to the spirit. "There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing" (Proverbs 12:18). 
  4. Collaboration - Repairing a roof is a daunting task and can be a bit overwhelming if you attempt to do it alone. That's why there are roofing crews. There is strength in numbers! Scripture says, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor" (Eccl. 4:9). The same is true in counseling. While one person is talking, the other counselor can be praying silently, taking notes, or picking up on non-verbal cues from the counselee. Beyond the structured session itself, all believers should be counseling one another in a general sense. They have the two essentials for doing so: the Word of God and the Spirit of God. In writing to a local church, Paul confidently stated, "I myself am satisfied about you, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge and able to instruct one another" (Romans. 15:14). 
  5. Cost - Our roofing project here at church is costing us thousands of dollars and hundreds of volunteer man-hours (and woman-hours!). Yet our congregation believes this project is worth it, because they rightly see our building as a stewardship that God has entrusted to us. If that's true of a building, how much more so of believers, who are "like living stones ... being built up as a spiritual house" (1 Peter 2:5), "a dwelling place for God" (Eph. 2:22), i.e. "God's temple" (1 Cor. 3:16). Biblical counseling, done rightly, requires a significant investment of time, money, volunteers, and other resources in the church. But the benefits far exceed the cost as lives are changed by the power of the gospel, and the church "grows into a holy temple in the Lord" (Eph. 2:21). 

God's People and Good Works

In his commentary on Titus 3:1-8, John Stott points out that the apostle Paul uses the expression "good works" (kala erga) fourteen times in the pastoral epistles (1 & 2 Timothy and Titus). That's quite a few occurrences, considering the brevity of these letters. But Paul is conveying to pastors the vital role of good works in the lives of God's people. Indeed, Paul tells Titus, "I want you to insist on these things, so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works" (Titus 3:8). 

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Having considered all fourteen occurrences of "good works" in the Pastorals, Stott concludes that Paul seems to be emphasizing five points:

  1. The very purpose of Christ's death was to purify for himself a people who would be enthusiastic for good works (Titus 2:14).
  2. Although good works can never be the basis of salvation (Titus 2:5; 2 Tim. 1:9), they are the essential evidence of salvation (Titus 3:8, 14).
  3. It is therefore expected that all Christians will be "equipped" and "eager" to do good works (2 Tim. 2:21; 3:17; Titus 3:1; cf. 1 Tim. 2:10; 5:10; 6:18).
  4. Since pastoral oversight is itself a good work (1 Tim. 3:1), all Christian leaders should be conspicuous (easily recognizable) by the good works they do (1 Tim. 5:25; Titus 2:7). This behavioral pattern stands in contrast to the false teachers who "claim to know God, but ... deny him by their works" (Titus 1:16).
  5. It is above all by good works that the gospel is adorned (made to look attractive) and so commended to outsiders (Titus 2:9-10; cf. Titus 2:5).

No wonder God's people should "be careful to devote themselves to good works. These things are excellent and profitable for people" (Titus 3:8).

What good works will you do today?

No Time to Burn

If you want to know how fast time flies, talk to an octogenarian. That's what I did today when my dad called to share a poem that he wrote over 40 years ago, when he was ten years younger than I am now. At the time, my dad had been married just a decade and had five children, all under the age of ten. While holding down a full-time job, he had just completed multiple years of night school to earn his M.B.A. and had undergone six intense weeks of study to pass his C.P.A. exam. 

With all this formal education now behind him, Dad thought that he would have "time to burn." But life taught him otherwise. How thankful I am that my father learned this lesson early on, because time is one commodity you can't get back once you spend it.  "Pay careful attention, then, to how you live—not as unwise people but as wise — making the most of the time...." (Ephesians 5:15-16).

No Time to Burn

By: James W. Fletcher

With years of study now behind,
I felt so certain I would find
That I’d have extra time galore
And not be busy anymore.

But still, each evening’s spoken for,
And weekends crowded even more
With things that clamor for my time;
(It took an hour for just this rhyme.)

The kids all need some time from Dad
For things they’ve never really had,
Like fishing trips and woodland hikes,
And fixing up their little bikes.

And Bev, for all her married life,
Has been an oft neglected wife.
She’s had her share of gifts and flowers,
But far too few of husband’s hours.

Our church continues in its need
For workers who will sow the Seed,
And visit door-to-door at night
To share with folks the Gospel light.

To meet these needs, and many more,
I’m just as busy as before;
There’s more to do than hours permit,
And there’s no time to idly sit.

But I have found, to my surprise:
I wouldn’t want it otherwise.
It took nigh forty years to learn
There’s no such thing as “time to burn.”

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To Post or Not to Post: That Is the Question

Let's be honest: Most of us tend to put our best foot forward on social media. Including me.

Does that make us hypocrites?

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Maybe. Maybe not. It depends on our motives. If we're presenting ourselves as something different than we really are, then that's hypocrisy. If we're simply wanting the approval and affirmation of others, then that's vanity. 

But if we're trying to encourage others and point them to Jesus -- despite our own imperfections -- then that's commendable.

The problem is that "the human heart [the seat of our thoughts, desires, and motives] is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?" (Jer. 17:9 NLT). The answer is: Nobody except the Lord. Even someone as godly as the apostle Paul confessed, "My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me" (1 Cor. 4:4 NIV). 

So we, like Paul, should do our best to examine ourselves and maintain a clear conscience before God and all people (Acts 24:16). At the same time, we must also be careful not to let critics keep us from using social media as a platform for doing a lot of people a lot of good.

Some professing Christians never post any Scripture or anything pertaining to the Lord online. They also never "like" such posts by other people. Instead, they criticize and accuse them of trying to appear "spiritual" so that others will admire them. The same people that hurl such accusations take pride in the fact that they never post such things because they're not hypocrites.

If that's you, well then, congratulations. That makes you guilty of one less sin. You can even thank God for that. May I suggest beginning your prayer this way: "God, I thank you that I am not like other men..." -- just like the Pharisee did (Luke 18:11). 

What do you expect people to do -- hang out all their dirty laundry so that everyone can see how "real" they are? Going back to Paul, I don't see him doing that in Scripture. Although he was quick to acknowledge that he was the foremost sinner (1 Tim. 1:15) and that he struggled greatly with sin (Rom. 7:14-25), Paul spent most of his time instructing people in the way of the Lord. If Paul were alive and on social media today, I don't think he would post things like:

  • I just lusted after a gorgeous babe who walked by.
  • You wouldn't believe the cuss word I just uttered under my breath!
  • I couldn't help but laugh at this dirty joke I heard.....

No, Paul was honest about his sin but spent the bulk of his time building people up in the Lord. He chose to focus on God's greatness rather than his own sinfulness.

Furthermore, there's a difference between posting, "During my hour-long devotions this morning at 5:00 a.m., here's a verse the Lord gave me..." versus posting a Scripture verse with a few thought-provoking comments that the Lord genuinely impressed on your heart and that you believe will also encourage others. There's a difference between constantly posting selfies to draw people's attention to yourself versus posting Scripture to draw people's attention to the Lord.

Again, I realize that the latter action can still be fueled by the same sinful motives as the former. But doesn't love believe the best about others and give them the benefit of the doubt (1 Cor. 13:7)? And aren't we as Christians to avoid speaking evil against one another and judging one another (James 4:11-12)? 

Oops, there I go again, quoting Scripture. I must be a hypocrite!

Perhaps it would be better to post only silly, trivial stuff -- or better yet -- incendiary comments and articles that get people all fired up and throwing stones at one another. Why build people up when you can tear them down or get them to tear each other apart? Why direct their thoughts toward God when I can fill their minds with frivolous, superficial things?

Sorry, but that makes no sense to me. There are already countless people providing that sort of substance (or lack thereof) on social media. 

I don't want to be hypocritical or come across as "hyper-spiritual." I'm also acutely aware of my desire for other people's affirmation and approval. But I'd rather examine my conscience and run the risk of being judged by others, than to let my sinful inclinations or theirs prevent me from pointing people to Jesus.

Shoe-Leather Love

Last Sunday I preached on the spiritual disciplines (Bible reading, prayer, fasting, exercising faithful stewardship, serving in the local church, evangelizing the lost, etc.). A few days later I saw on the bookshelf in our family room a book by Jerry Bridges that I read years ago, titled The Discipline of Grace: God's Role and our Role in the Pursuit of Holiness. I picked up the book and began reading it with a desire to refresh my own understanding of how grace fuels sanctification (the process of becoming less sinful and more like Jesus). As Bridges puts it,

Your worst days are never so bad that you are beyond the reach of God's grace. And your best days are never so good that you are beyond the need of God's grace.

That's a foundational principle -- not only to Bridges' book but to all of Christian living. The transforming effects of the gospel impacts every aspect of life, including our relationships. After all, Jesus did say that to love God supremely with our entire being and to love our neighbor as ourselves are the first and second commands (Matt. 22:37-39). The apostle Paul reinforced this concept when he wrote, 

Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. (Eph. 5:1-2)
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The command to "walk in love" emphasizes the practical nature of this supreme virtue. In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul lists some of the "active ingredients" of love, saying, 

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

To help him put "shoe leather" on the concept of love, Jerry Bridges paraphrased the above verses into action statements. I found these to be very helpful, especially in light of the gospel-centered motives that produce such action.

  • I am patient with you because I love you and want to forgive you.
  • I am kind to you because I love you and want to help you.
  • I do not envy your possessions or your gifts because I love you and want you to have the best.
  • I do not boast about my attainments because I love you and want to hear about yours.
  • I am not proud because I love you and want to esteem you before myself.
  • I am not rude because I love you and care about your feelings.
  • I am not self-seeking because I love you and want to meet your needs.
  • I am not easily angered by you because I love you and want to overlook your offenses.
  • I do not keep a record of your wrongs because I love you, and "love covers a multitude of sins."

How are you doing in your day-to-day practice of love? Is there any room for self-righteousness? Indeed, we all fall short of God's standard. That's why we need his grace. (Refer again to Bridges' quote at the top of this article!) Let's ask the Lord to renew our hearts and to help us put on love's walking shoes!

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What Is Godliness?

To enhance my summer reading, I've joined Tim Challies' group, Reading Classics Together We'll be going through The Godly Man's Picture by Thomas Watson. As Challies points out, this book is not just for men. "It is, in reality, The Godly Person's Picture and simply looks to Scripture to describe the marks of a Christian." 

(Note: If you'd like to join the reading group, click here.)

I just began reading the book myself. Today I leafed through chapter two, which asks, What is godliness? 

Watson provides the following answer: "Godliness is the sacred impression and workmanship of God in a man...." That's a simple definition, but Watson enlarges our understanding of godliness by laying down seven maxims, which I'll comment on briefly, mixing my own remarks with Watson's:

  1. Godliness is a real thing, it is not shadow, but substance. It's not the figment of a deluded person's imagination. Rather, it has truth as its foundation (Psalm 86:11). If God be true, then godliness is true.
  2. Godliness is an intrinsical thing; it lies chiefly in the heart (Psalm 51:6). "The dew lies on the leaf, the sap is hid in the root. The moralist's religion is  all in the leaf, it consists only in externals: but godliness is a holy sap which is eradicated in the soul."
  3. Godliness is a supernatural thing, whereas by nature, we inherit nothing but evil. We naturally crave sin, sucking it in like a baby does her mother's milk. But godliness is "breathed in from heaven. God must light up the lamp of grace in the heart; weeds grow of themselves, flowers are planted." Isaiah refers to godly people as "oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he may be glorified" (Isa. 61:3).
  4. Godliness is an extensive thing; it is a sacred leaven that spreads itself throughout the whole person (1 Thess. 5:23). Says Watson, "Grace is called the new man (Col. 3:10), not a new eye or tongue, but a new man; he who is godly is good all over; tho' he be regenerate but in part, yet it is in every part."
  5. Godliness is an intense thing; it does not lie in a dead formality or indifference, but is "fervent in spirit" (Rom. 12:11). A godly heart boils over in holy affections.
  6. Godliness is a glorious thing; as the jewel is to the ring, so is piety to the soul. "Godliness is near a kin to glory (2 Pet. 1:3)... Godliness is glory in the seed, and glory is godliness in the flower."
  7. Godliness is a permanent thing. "Godliness is a fixed thing: there is a great deal of difference between a stake in the hedge and a tree in the garden; a stake rots ... but a tree, having life in it, abides and flourisheth." Scripture declares, "No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God's seed abides in him..." (1 John 3:9) - and it abides to eternity.

In thinking on these qualities, we may be inclined to cry out with David, "Help, O Lord, for the godly are fast disappearing! The faithful have vanished from the earth!" (Psalm 12:1 NLT). Yet the Holy Spirit responds, "what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives" (2 Pet. 3:11). Yes, we should. Indeed, we can! "For God is working in [us] giving [us] the desire and the power to do what pleases him" (Phil. 2:13).

So, join us in this quest for godliness!

In God's work, everyone matters!

Do you ever feel that your work goes unnoticed and unappreciated? Do you ever wonder if what you're doing really makes a difference? If so, take a look at Nehemiah 3. It's a long chapter filled with unfamiliar names and uninteresting details -- just a bunch of people working on a wall. Yet those names and those details are recorded in Scripture for a reason. They remind us that in God's work, everyone matters!

Years ago, I remember watching a movie along with some other family members with my uncle Ted. As soon as it was over, the rest of us got up to leave but Uncle Ted just sat there, watching the screen. I said, “C’mon, Uncle Ted, the movie’s over!” He said, “Hold on. I want to watch the credits. These people worked hard on the movie and deserve to be recognized.”

Think of your favorite movie. You probably remember the main actors. You might even remember who directed it or who did the soundtrack. But do you remember all the other people who worked on the movie? Who designed the set? Who produced the costumes? Who worked in the makeup department? Who orchestrated the sound? Who created the visual effects? I looked up one movie that had 800 people working on the visual effects alone! Each of them had a specific job to do, and that was noted next to their name. Without them, the movie would not have been made. As my uncle said, such people work hard and deserve to be recognized. That is, after all, why they call them the credits. Nehemiah 3 is the credits of the Jerusalem construction project.

This text says a lot more about the God who wrote it than about us who read it. It reminds us that God is mindful of everyone who serves -- whether anyone else takes notice or not. "For God is not unjust so as to overlook your work and the love that you have shown for his name in serving the saints, as you still do" (Hebrews 6:10).

The title of my sermon on Nehemiah 3, "No Little People," was taken from the following quote by Francis Schaeffer: 

We must remember throughout our lives that in God’s sight there are no little people and no little places. Only one thing is important: to be consecrated persons in God’s place for us, at each moment. Those who think of themselves as little people in little places, if committed to Christ and living under his Lordship in the whole of life, may, by God’s grace change the flow of our generation. And as we get on a bit in our lives, knowing how weak we are, if we look back and see we have been somewhat used of God, then we should be … “surprised by joy.”

It's a wonder that God would use any of us, let alone remember our work and reward us for it. But that's the kind of God we serve -- a God of infinite grace.

Shouldn't that motivate us to serve him all the more?

A Church With or Without Walls?

On Sunday mornings, our congregation has been studying the book of Nehemiah. He was cupbearer to the Persian king Artaxerxes who went back to Jerusalem "to seek the welfare of the people of Israel" (Neh. 2:10). Nehemiah cared about the wall because he cared about the people. He knew that the wall was essential to their protection and well-being.

Nehemiah was opposed on all sides (even in a literal sense, geographically) by Sanballat the Horonite, Tobiah the Ammonite, and Geshem the Arab. After exhorting the people, "Come, let us build the wall of Jerusalem," Nehemiah told their enemies, "The God of heaven will make us prosper, and we his servants will arise and build, but you have no portion or right or claim in Jerusalem" (Neh. 2:20). In other words, because Sanballat, Tobiah, and Geshem did not belong to God's people, they had no say in the matter. Why? Because they had no legitimate claim or connection to God's covenant people.

That is something the church must keep in mind today as God's new covenant people. We hear a lot about breaking down walls, but not much about building a wall. Yet the church must do both.

We must break down walls that impede the gospel, that are not part of the gospel. The apostle Paul tried to find common ground with everyone, doing everything he could to save them (1 Cor. 9:22). In commenting on this verse, John MacArthur notes that Paul would "modify his habits, his preferences, his entire life-style if any of those things caused someone to ... be offended, or to be hindered from faith in the Lord." MacArthur then adds, "What [Paul] did in this regard was not part of the gospel; it had nothing to do with the gospel. But it helped many unbelievers to listen to the gospel and be more open to receive it." 

We must build walls that commend the gospel. Some churches try so hard to create a sense of "belonging" among unbelievers in their midst, that they lose their distinctiveness as a new covenant community. The idea is that if these unbelievers feel like they belong, they'll eventually believe. So they're encouraged to usher, join the music team, help out in children's ministry, etc. Michael Lawrence summarizes this approach well, saying, "Everyone is included; everyone belongs, regardless of belief."

Yet Scripture never condones such a thing. The same apostle who strove for common ground with unbelievers also referred to them, in the very same letter, as "outsiders" multiple times (see 1 Cor. 5:12, 13; 1 Cor. 14:16, 23, 24). While Christians must strive for common ground with unbelievers in order to proclaim Christ, we must never forget that our community as believers is marked by commonality in Christ. Michael Lawrence is spot-on when he declares, 

The local church is a community, and at the end of the day, a community is defined, not by its documents, buildings, or programs, but by its people -- and a people whose lives participate in the new creation realities of love and holiness, thereby creating new plausibility structures.

Lawrence goes on to reiterate this point, saying, "the church can be a plausibility structure for faith only if it consists of people who have faith." That's why "belonging before believing" is a bad idea. It "fundamentally redefines the church, which in the long run undermines the power of the church's witness."

Jesus said, "By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35). A Christian community marked by Christ-like love for one another "will provoke those on the outside not only to recognize they are outside, but to desire to come in." So there is a wall, but it's not like a brick wall, It's more like a glass wall -- what Michael Lawrence calls a "transparent barrier." I'll close with this beautiful picture of church community and its compelling witness that Lawrence describes:

The image that comes to mind is of a bakery on a cold, snowy day. Whiffs of delicious bread and hot chocolate occasionally waft outside. And a child has his nose pressed against the window pane. That glass is a barrier. Without it, the warmth and delicious smells would soon disperse in the cold wind, and no one would know there was anything good to be found there. But it’s a transparent barrier, allowing that child to see the good things inside and invite him in. And there is a way in, a narrow door that he must walk through. Until he does, he can see and appreciate what’s inside, but it’s not his to enjoy. Once he walks through, it’s his for the asking.
When non-Christians encounter your church it should be like standing at that window, not staring blankly at a brick wall. They should feel the warmth of your love, as you welcome them and engage them as people made in the image of God. They should see the depth of relationships, as they witness people who have no reason to care for one another go out of their way to serve. They should taste the richness of the gospel, as God’s word is preached and taught in a manner that connects with their lives. And they should hear the inviting sounds of a joyful community, as they listen to the praises and prayers of a people who worship our crucified and risen Lord.
So go out of your way to create a community that welcomes the outsider. Give thought to the language you use. Be deliberate in your hospitality. And be strategic in your transparency. Like a bakery that pumps the delicious smell of its bread outside, publicly celebrate the stories of grace and transformation that are happening in your midst. And then, when you’ve done all else, make the gospel clear and invite people to respond to it in repentance and faith. Call them, not to walk an aisle, but to enter through the narrow door, and join with you in the riches of faith in the gospel.
If the church is to display the good things of the gospel, the barrier of belief must not be removed, for it is that shared belief on display that works most powerfully to invite people in.

Self-Analysis and Spiritual Paralysis

Years ago the sister of a well-known pastor created, at his request, a simple card to post on the wall beside his desk. On the card was printed a simple, three-word question:

WHAT'S YOUR MOTIVE?

That's an important question to ask, because motives matter to God. "All a person's ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord" (Prov. 16:2). Motives are the underlying reasons for our actions. A pastor-friend of mine often says, "We do what we do because we want what we want." 

After Jesus fed the five thousand, he got into a boat and headed to the other side of the lake. The people he had just fed soon got into a boat and went looking for Jesus. 

When they found him on the other side of the lake, they asked him, “Rabbi, when did you get here?" Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, you are looking for me, not because you saw the signs I performed but because you ate the loaves and had your fill." (John 6:25-26 NIV).

God is all-knowing. He is able to discern the thoughts and intentions of our hearts, and we will give an account to him for these things (Heb. 4:12-13). Therefore, we should regularly examine our hearts to make sure that our motives are pure.

With this in mind, we must also guard against the kind of self-analysis that leads to spiritual paralysis. Some Christians spend so much time examining their possible motives for doing something, that they never get in motion to do it! 

Take fasting, for instance. One may ask, "Will I do this because I'm hungry for God, or because I want to lose weight?" Or how about church attendance: "Will I go because I want to worship God and build up my brothers and sisters in Christ, or because I want others to think well of me?"

These are good questions to ask, so long as they don't become so consuming that they keep us from doing the very things God wants us to do. Truth is, God uses some of these very actions as a means of grace -- to help mature and purify us as his people.

A good example of this appears in Psalm 73, when Asaph (a worship leader of Israel) was envious of the wicked. When Asaph saw how much they prospered and how "problem-free" their lives were, he began thinking that living for God was a waste of time. He hadn't started talking this way, but he was already thinking this way. That is, he says, "until I went into the sanctuary of God; then I understood their final destiny" (Psalm 73:17). Asaph goes on to confess, "Then I realized that my heart was bitter, and I was all torn up inside. I was so foolish and ignorant..." (vv. 21-22a). Asaph didn't wait to get his thinking 100% straight until he went to God's temple. Rather, it was then and there at God's temple that Asaph's thinking got straight! David derived the same benefit in prayer, saying, "Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!" (Psalm 139:23-24).

Bible reading, prayer, and corporate worship are just a few means that God can use to prick our hearts and purify our motives. So don't wait until you're positive that your motives are perfect before engaging in these spiritual activities, because the truth is, you'll never get there. We will never achieve perfection this side of heaven. Instead, we should strive for a clear conscience as we go about our business. We should be able to say with the apostle Paul,

My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God. (1 Cor. 4:4-5)

How to Cultivate a Sense of God's Presence

Today my wife Ruthie was painting in the children's ministry area of our church building. At some point in the afternoon, I walked over from my office at the other end of the building to check in and see how she was doing. She laughed at me and shook her head. "Earlier you walked right past me two times and never even noticed I was standing here!" 

I thought, "No way!" But then I did remember walking by that stairwell to take out some trash between meetings. Apparently, I had passed Ruthie once on my way to empty the trash, and then a second time on my way back to my office. My wife was there, but I didn't sense her presence. 

The same can happen to us as believers in our relationship with God. The Lord is always with us, "for he has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you'" (Heb. 13:5). Yet, just as I didn't have a clue that my wife was standing close by, because I was preoccupied with other things, so we can be unaware of God's presence for the same reason.

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God is there, but are we aware? That's the question. And it's worth taking the time to answer, because in God's presence there is fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11). So, what can we do to cultivate a sense of God's presence? 

  1. Meditate on God's Word. Don't just read it; reflect on it. Mull it over in your mind. Apply it to yourself. In his classic book, Knowing God, James Packer describes meditation as "an activity of holy thought, consciously performed in the presence of God, under the eye of God, by the help of God, as a means of communion with God." The prophet Jeremiah testified, "Your words were found, and I ate them, and your words became to me a joy and the delight of my heart, for I am called by your name, O Lord, God of hosts" (Jer. 15:16). By giving ourselves to meditation, we like Jeremiah can experience the joy of God's presence.
  2. Confess and forsake any known sin. Sin creates a gap between us and God (Isa. 59:2). In order to draw near to God, we must deal with our sin (James 4:4). "If we confess our sins, [God] is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). The word "confess" literally means "to say the same thing." It's calling sin for what it is, as God sees it, rather than making excuses or minimizing it. When David sinned, he was miserable until he confessed his sin to God (see Psalm 51). David asked the Lord to restore to him the joy of his salvation, so that once again he could sing and declare God's praise (Ps. 51:12-15). God forgave David's sin and restored his joy (Psalm 32), and God will do the same for us (1 John 1:9).
  3. Pray in the Holy Spirit. The New Testament writer Jude wrote, "But you, beloved, building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in the love of God..." (Jude 20-21). Just as the Word of God is our foundation for living, so the Spirit of God is our fountain for living. Romans 8:15 refers to him as "the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry out, 'Abba, Father!'" They Holy Spirit assures us that we are God's children, that we have been accepted into God's family, that God is our Father, and we can share with him all that is on our hearts. We can cast all our cares on him, knowing that he cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). The Holy Spirit is the conduit through which God the Father pours out his love into our hearts (Rom. 5:5). By praying in humble reliance on the Holy Spirit, we can cultivate a greater sense of God's presence.
  4. Fast to the Lord. In his book, A Hunger for GodJohn Piper contends, "If we don't feel strong desires for the manifestation of the glory of God, it is not because you have drunk deeply and are satisfied. It is because we have nibbled so long at the table of the world. Our soul is stuffed with small things, and there is no room for the great." Fasting is a way of expressing, and even increasing, our soul's appetite for God. Jesus predicted that the time would come when his disciples would fast - the time when Jesus would be taken away from them (Matthew 9:14-17). Fasting is a way of saying that we're homesick for heaven (see point #9 below). Dave Butts wrote, "Christians today are returning to fasting and prayer as a means of waking us up to our great need for the presence of God."
  5. Sing to the Lord. I've heard people say many times that the job of a worship leader is to "lead us into the presence of God." Are you kidding me? Jesus Christ alone can do that, and he has already opened up the way for us through his death and resurrection (Hebrews 9:12-14; 10:19-25). However, we can remind ourselves and one another of what Christ has already accomplished for us by "singing and making melody to the Lord with [our] heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Eph. 5:19-20). By exercising faith in the finished work of Christ, we draw near to God and are "filled with the Spirit" (Eph. 5:18). As John MacArthur notes in his commentary on this verse, "To be filled with the Spirit is to live in the consciousness of the personal presence of the Lord Jesus Christ, as if we were standing next to Him...." 
  6. Go to church. Not just any church, but a church that is centered on the gospel and the word of God as a whole. Go to a church where the the gospel is portrayed (through the ordinances of baptism and the Lord's Supper), sung, spoken, prayed, and lived out in the context of Christian community. Such a church is the temple of the Holy Spirit - God's dwelling place (1 Cor. 3:16). Become an active, participating member of such a church, and you will experience God's presence. In fact, Scripture declares that even an unbeliever who enters a church where God's word is clearly communicated will come under conviction, "and so, falling on his face, he will worship God and declare that God is really among you" (1 Cor. 14:25).
  7. Be a generous giver. John Wesley said, "When I have money, I get rid of it quickly, let it find a way into my heart." Scripture warns us that love for money and the desire to be rich entices people, ensnares them, and plunges them "into ruin and destruction" (1 Tim. 6:9). But generous givers experience great joy. Such was the case with the churches in Macedonia in the first century. The apostle Paul testified, "In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity" (2 Cor. 8:2). Even though these believers were physically poor, they were spiritually rich. They experienced the grace of God and enjoyed the presence of God. This should not surprise us, "for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" (Matt. 6:21). When giving is a priority, we experience God's presence.
  8. Tell others about Jesus. When giving his command to "make disciples," Jesus assured his followers, "I am with you always, to the end of the age" (Matt. 28:20). One of the best ways to experience God's presence is to obey Jesus' command to make disciples. 
  9. Think much of heaven. In his classic devotional book, The Saint's Everlasting Rest, the 17th century Puritan pastor Richard Baxter wrote, 
Why are not our hearts continually set on heaven? Why dwell we not there in constant contemplation? ... Bend thy soul to study eternity, busy thyself about the life to come, habituate thyself to such contemplations, and let not those thoughts be seldom and curry, but bathe thyself in heaven's delights.

Jesus has gone to heaven to prepare a place for us, so that where he is, there we may be also (John 14:3). Jude says that one of the ways we keep ourselves in the love of God is by "waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life" (Jude 21). Paul says that we wait for God's Son from heaven (1 Thess. 1:10), and that we're to "seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God" (Col. 3:1). Two verses later, Paul says, "your life is hidden with Christ in God" (Col. 3:3). Boy, talk about the inner sanctum - the very heart of God's presence! Yet that is our position in Christ as believers. To experience that reality, we must be heavenly-minded.

Can you think of more ways that we can cultivate a greater sense of God's presence in our lives? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below. I'd love to hear from you!